The media said that Suzhou men weigh the feelings of the first Chengdu people to compete

For busy single men and women, career and love are often the relationship between "fish and paws are not available". Recently, a well-known domestic marriage website released "When the love of Chinese men and women survey series of love encountered work." In the survey report of 71,295 people from 27 provinces, the proportion of Suzhou single male “love first” is high in the country. According to the media in Suzhou, "Suzhou men are affectionate and the country is number one." But this result made some people in Chengdu uncomfortable.

If you are busy, you have to fall in love

Suzhou men "heavy feelings"?

Single men and women in the workplace are always busy, however, even under the intense working rhythm, most people still believe in love and are trying to find their love. According to the survey report, 84% of single men and women endorsed the idea of ​​"being busy again and falling in love." When dating encounters overtime, 79% of women will choose to work overtime first, 53% of men choose to work overtime first; when love and work cannot have both, 69% of women and 62% of men said they would give up their current job for love. .

84.9% of men in Suzhou and 83.9% of women in Suzhou chose “Be busy and fall in love”. In the survey results, this figure was higher than other cities and became the source of the “Suzhou man's heavy emotions”.

Chengdu people are not satisfied

70% of people love supremacy

The result of “Suzhou Men's Heavy Feelings” has made many Chengdu users very unconvinced. Chengdu netizen “Little Bird” said: “I’ve been to many cities and found out that the men of Chengdu’s feelings are delicate and the relationship between work and family is handled extremely well. It can be said that Chengdu men are no worse than other domestic cities in respect of affection. In the above investigation report, 84.5% of Chengdu men chose "Be busy again and fall in love," which was only 0.4% lower than in Suzhou, and 82.9% of Chengdu women chose to "be busy again and fall in love." "It is about 1 percentage point lower than Suzhou.

Some Chengdu netizens believe that simple data can't explain the problem. Chengdu people's long-term attitude towards leisure life and the uniqueness of Chengdu men have determined that they have a "DNA" that values ​​love and family. From the national survey data, there are about 70% of Chengdu single men and women between love and work, choose to love.

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Most people choose love

Related to Chengdu's leisure temperament

Yuan Yin, chief psychologist of the Fourth People's Hospital of Chengdu, stated: “The pace of life of modern urban people is accelerating, competition among people is fierce, and people are more insecure about the uncertainty of their career expectations. As a result, men and women They are more inclined to find comfort in love and thus produce this kind of social phenomenon.” “In fact, the relationship between love and career is not like fish and bear's paw. The two can only take one, and love and career can be shared. "Yuan Yin explained to reporters that while modern society is highly competitive, people in Chengdu have relatively "casual temperament". About 70% of people in Chengdu choose love and are willing to spend time and energy on their feelings. This is related to "casual temperament".

â—‹Related data

Beishangguang white-collar workers tend to have an office romance

In an increasingly busy modern society, "office romance" has long been a new topic. From the national survey data, more than 50% of men’s office romances and defamation targets are women of the same or lower level; more than half of women report that office romances and embarrassing targets are higher than their own level of managers or companies. High-level management. About 50% of respondents support office romances, but more than half of them are reluctant to express their opinions about the office, whether they are parties or bystanders.

According to the national survey on the incidence of "office romance and jealousy", the incidence rate in Guangdong is 76.0%, the incidence in Shanghai is 73.1%, and the incidence in Beijing is 72.2%, occupying the top three positions in the country. The incidence in Sichuan was 67.3%. Many interviewees stated that single men and women in the workplace are always busy, and that single men and women in the same department are prone to “partial romances and embarrassment”. Different departments have more jobs and single men and women are more prone to affection.

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